How to Give Great Head
Want to learn how to give a great blow job? Don’t have a lot of experience in giving head? It’s often embarrassing when you realize you don’t exactly have a lot of experience in “oral stimulation”. You’re not always comfortable asking friends, for fear that they’re “more experienced” and might chuckle at your ignorance!
As a lover, not sharing oral pleasure is like having sex without an orgasm. Sure, you can enjoy it but it’s just not ROCKIN!
Learning how to give a blow job is all about technique and learning your man.
The tip of the penis, or the head, is usually a man’s most sensitive area. Just under the rim of the head, tongue movement around the area can bring him to maximum pleasure.
While you can use flavored oils or creams, often your own hot, milky juices can provide enough lubrication to keep the penis sliding easily in and out of your lips. You can slide onto your man’s hardness and ride a bit, then slip off, using your own warm cum to lubricate his penis or you can provide a little extra spit from your own mouth to keep the movement nice and steady & free from being too harsh. Sucking in while keeping his hard cock wet is a must, so don’t worry about literally drooling over that hard cock you’re eating up! He’s feeling the movement and wetness is NOT a bad thing!
Using your hand at the base of his penis is generally the best technique for giving great head. Depending on the size of the penis, wrap your mouth around the tip while placing your fingers and hand around the shaft. As you slide up and down on your man, suck in a little to provide the feeling of tightness but be careful not to suck too hard. A firm grip on the base, sliding up and down with your mouth and hand at the same time provide complete stimulation and great blow job! Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips too! There’s nothing worse than scraping his hard cock with your teeth right in the middle of giving him the best blow job of his life!
Using your hand with your mouth can give him the feeling that you’re taking his entire manhood in your mouth. He’ll think this is the best blow job of his life if he feels every inch of his hardness being used. If you CAN take it all the way to the back of the throat, all the better; but if you can’t, using the hand with the lips and mouth give him the feeling that he’s being sucked from the base to the tip of that hard juicy cock.
Sometimes backing off the cock a little and concentrating on sucking just the head, much like you would suckle a nipple on a baby bottle, can bring him so close to climax that one or two good slides up and down on that hardness makes him shoot like a rocket. Suck in and out quickly, as if you’re milking the head, and then slowly slide down onto the penis fully with your mouth and hand.
Some guys love their balls played with while you’re sucking. Giving great head doesn’t always involve just the cock. A light tickle with your fingertips or kissing and sucking on them can turn some men on; but beware.. others may be extremely sensitive in this area and prefer a light or no touching there.
Guys usually do prefer if you swallow, but if it’s just not something you can do don’t be one of those lovers that turns and spits. It’s such a turn off!
If you’ve never tasted cum before, and every man does taste different believe me, then don’t just dive in and let him shoot his load full into your mouth. For the first time, take the cum at the front of the mouth at the tip of the tongue. This way your gag reflex isn’t on high alert, you get to taste the sweet and salty cream but not necessarily have it shot straight down your throat. Sometimes I actually do this so I CAN taste the cum better, while other times I love when his cock starts to pulsate, telling me he’s about to shoot, and shoving it to the back of my throat to take the entire load!
If you don’t want to swallow, it’s not the end of the world. He should be sensitive to your likes and dislikes anyways but you also want to back off the swallowing with style. Simply hold the cum in your mouth as you gently slide alongside his thighs and place the cum in a paper towel that you’ve taken with you. Acting like you’re wiping your lips can often hide the fact that you’re not swallowing that sweet juice that he just gave you.
You can also pull his cock out of your mouth as he’s shooting, rubbing it all over your face and neck. When he sees you bathing in his love juice he’s going to be turned on and not even notice that you didn’t take the load down your throat!
Giving great head is really an art. Practice makes perfect and every man is a little different. A blowjob can be pleasing to both partners when done properly. Don’t be afraid to experiment with your tongue. Licking his hardness like a popsicle on a hot summer day can make him hotter than you think! Giving great head can enhance your sex life greatly. Learning how to give great head can be the ticket to keeping you BOTH happy in the bedroom.
One of the best things about giving a great blowjob is that you don’t always have to get fully undressed. Spice it up with some fellatio on the road, aka “road head” but be careful while he’s driving. Make sure HE can handle the heat AND the car at the same time! It’s hot knowing a trucker drives by and sees your head in your man’s lap, knowing the naughtiness that’s going on in your car!
Taking him into the bathroom and locking the door while dropping to your knees can also be very hot. Basically a great blowjob can be given, and taken, just about anywhere. That’s the glory of it all!
Just remember, you’re basically stimulating his cock so that it feels as good as, or better if you know how to give great head, than entering the tightest pussy or ass he’s ever entered!
